fix: rename save_memory and fix MCP search instructions + startup hook (#1210)

* fix: rename save_memory to save_observation and fix MCP search instructions

Stop the primary agent from proactively saving memories by renaming
save_memory to save_observation with a neutral description. Remove
"Saving Memories" section from SKILL.md. Update context formatters
and output styles to reference the mem-search skill instead of raw
MCP tool names.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

* fix: split SessionStart hooks so smart-install failure doesn't block worker start

smart-install.js and worker-start were in the same hook group, so if
smart-install exited non-zero the worker never started. Split into
separate hook groups so they run independently.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

* fix: worker startup waits for readiness before hooks fire

Move initializationCompleteFlag to set after DB/search init (not MCP),
add waitForReadiness() polling /api/readiness, and extract shared
pollEndpointUntilOk helper to DRY up health/readiness checks.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

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Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

README.md

@@ -198,7 +198,7 @@ See [Architecture Overview](https://docs.claude-mem.ai/architecture/overview) fo
 
 ## MCP Search Tools
 
-Claude-Mem provides intelligent memory search through **5 MCP tools** following a token-efficient **3-layer workflow pattern**:
+Claude-Mem provides intelligent memory search through **4 MCP tools** following a token-efficient **3-layer workflow pattern**:
 
 **The 3-Layer Workflow:**
 
@@ -211,7 +211,6 @@ Claude-Mem provides intelligent memory search through **5 MCP tools** following
 - Start with `search` to get an index of results
 - Use `timeline` to see what was happening around specific observations
 - Use `get_observations` to fetch full details for relevant IDs
-- Use `save_memory` to manually store important information
 - **~10x token savings** by filtering before fetching details
 
 **Available MCP Tools:**
@@ -219,8 +218,6 @@ Claude-Mem provides intelligent memory search through **5 MCP tools** following
 1. **`search`** - Search memory index with full-text queries, filters by type/date/project
 2. **`timeline`** - Get chronological context around a specific observation or query
 3. **`get_observations`** - Fetch full observation details by IDs (always batch multiple IDs)
-4. **`save_memory`** - Manually save a memory/observation for semantic search
-5. **`__IMPORTANT`** - Workflow documentation (always visible to Claude)
 
 **Example Usage:**
 
@@ -232,9 +229,6 @@ search(query="authentication bug", type="bugfix", limit=10)
 
 // Step 3: Fetch full details
 get_observations(ids=[123, 456])
-
-// Save important information manually
-save_memory(text="API requires auth header X-API-Key", title="API Auth")
 ```
 
 See [Search Tools Guide](https://docs.claude-mem.ai/usage/search-tools) for detailed examples.