fix: rename save_memory and fix MCP search instructions + startup hook (#1210)

* fix: rename save_memory to save_observation and fix MCP search instructions

Stop the primary agent from proactively saving memories by renaming
save_memory to save_observation with a neutral description. Remove
"Saving Memories" section from SKILL.md. Update context formatters
and output styles to reference the mem-search skill instead of raw
MCP tool names.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

* fix: split SessionStart hooks so smart-install failure doesn't block worker start

smart-install.js and worker-start were in the same hook group, so if
smart-install exited non-zero the worker never started. Split into
separate hook groups so they run independently.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

* fix: worker startup waits for readiness before hooks fire

Move initializationCompleteFlag to set after DB/search init (not MCP),
add waitForReadiness() polling /api/readiness, and extract shared
pollEndpointUntilOk helper to DRY up health/readiness checks.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

---------

Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/shared/hook-constants.ts

@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@ export const HOOK_TIMEOUTS = {
   DEFAULT: 300000,            // Standard HTTP timeout (5 min for slow systems)
   HEALTH_CHECK: 3000,         // Worker health check (3s — healthy worker responds in <100ms)
   POST_SPAWN_WAIT: 5000,      // Wait for daemon to start after spawn (starts in <1s on Linux)
+  READINESS_WAIT: 30000,      // Wait for DB + search init after spawn (typically <5s)
   PORT_IN_USE_WAIT: 3000,     // Wait when port occupied but health failing
   WORKER_STARTUP_WAIT: 1000,
   PRE_RESTART_SETTLE_DELAY: 2000,  // Give files time to sync before restart