MAESTRO: Merge PRs #920 and #699 - Add project exclusion and folder CLAUDE.md exclusion settings

Cherry-picked both PRs to main (both had merge conflicts with current main).

PR #920 (@Spunky84): CLAUDE_MEM_EXCLUDED_PROJECTS setting with glob patterns
to exclude entire projects from memory tracking (privacy/confidentiality).
Early-exit in session-init and observation handlers. 11 unit tests.

PR #699 (@leepokai): CLAUDE_MEM_FOLDER_MD_EXCLUDE setting with JSON array
of paths to exclude from CLAUDE.md file generation (fixes SwiftUI/Xcode
build conflicts and drizzle kit migration failures). Closes #620.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/utils/project-filter.ts

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+/**
+ * Project Filter Utility
+ *
+ * Provides glob-based path matching for project exclusion.
+ * Supports: ~ (home), * (any chars except /), ** (any path), ? (single char)
+ */
+
+import { homedir } from 'os';
+
+/**
+ * Convert a glob pattern to a regular expression
+ * Supports: ~ (home dir), * (any non-slash), ** (any path), ? (single char)
+ */
+function globToRegex(pattern: string): RegExp {
+  // Expand ~ to home directory
+  let expanded = pattern.startsWith('~')
+    ? homedir() + pattern.slice(1)
+    : pattern;
+
+  // Normalize path separators to forward slashes
+  expanded = expanded.replace(/\\/g, '/');
+
+  // Escape regex special characters except * and ?
+  let regex = expanded.replace(/[.+^${}()|[\]\\]/g, '\\$&');
+
+  // Convert glob patterns to regex:
+  // ** matches any path (including /)
+  // * matches any characters except /
+  // ? matches single character except /
+  regex = regex
+    .replace(/\*\*/g, '<<<GLOBSTAR>>>')  // Temporary placeholder
+    .replace(/\*/g, '[^/]*')              // * = any non-slash
+    .replace(/\?/g, '[^/]')               // ? = single non-slash
+    .replace(/<<<GLOBSTAR>>>/g, '.*');    // ** = anything
+
+  return new RegExp(`^${regex}$`);
+}
+
+/**
+ * Check if a path matches any of the exclusion patterns
+ *
+ * @param projectPath - Current working directory (absolute path)
+ * @param exclusionPatterns - Comma-separated glob patterns (e.g., "~/kunden/*,/tmp/*")
+ * @returns true if path should be excluded
+ */
+export function isProjectExcluded(projectPath: string, exclusionPatterns: string): boolean {
+  if (!exclusionPatterns || !exclusionPatterns.trim()) {
+    return false;
+  }
+
+  // Normalize cwd path separators
+  const normalizedProjectPath = projectPath.replace(/\\/g, '/');
+
+  // Parse comma-separated patterns
+  const patternList = exclusionPatterns
+    .split(',')
+    .map(p => p.trim())
+    .filter(Boolean);
+
+  for (const pattern of patternList) {
+    try {
+      const regex = globToRegex(pattern);
+      if (regex.test(normalizedProjectPath)) {
+        return true;
+      }
+    } catch {
+      // Invalid pattern, skip it
+      continue;
+    }
+  }
+
+  return false;
+}